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Olivia Ladanyi
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The Guardian
Jul 2026
Into the Wild inspired my life of adventure – but I learned the wrong lessons about freedom
A long-distance hiker reflects on how Into the Wild shaped years of seeking freedom through global travel and wilderness exploration, eventually recognising the emotional costs of constant escape. Through hiking the Pacific Crest Trail, freedom becomes redefined as mental clarity, emotional grounding and appreciation for relationships rather than physical isolation.
The Guardian
Jul 2026
This is how we do it: ‘In our open relationship, I prefer “don’t ask, don’t tell”. But he wants the details’
A couple navigating ethical non‑monogamy describes the tension between differing comfort levels with sharing details about outside partners. Rick struggles with knowing too much and prefers stability, while Rachel uses a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ approach to manage insecurity and values sexual variety. Both acknowledge the arrangement’s challenges and the possibility that their needs may eventually shift toward monogamy, while continuing to reassess how much information to share to maintain the relationship.
The Guardian
Jul 2026
Casual by Chappell Roan helped me ditch dead-end relationships
Reflecting on recurring ambiguous relationships, hearing Chappell Roan’s song Casual triggers a realization about ignoring mismatched expectations and clinging to fantasy over reality. Recognizing patterns of self-abandonment and unreturned commitment prompts ending a long‑distance situationship and guides a new resolve to take people at their word rather than their gestures.
The Guardian
Jul 2026
This is how we do it: ‘I fell in love with my lover’s husband – and now we’re a trio’
Two partners in a polyamorous arrangement describe how their relationship evolved after Sadie, originally dating Leonie, developed a romantic connection with Jonathan. Both recount navigating jealousy, boundaries and emotional risk as their dynamic shifted into a committed trio. They describe building trust, maintaining separate and shared bonds, and using structured communication to explore intimacy and sustain a stable three‑person relationship.
The Guardian
Jul 2026
I fell in love with ballet as a young girl – now it’s keeping me active in my eighties
A woman recounts how discovering ballet in childhood became a lifelong source of expression, joy and vitality, shaping her adolescence, motherhood and later years. Watching performances and dancing privately at home gave her confidence and a sense of freedom, eventually inspiring her to form a dance group for women over 50. Now in her eighties, she continues to dance alone to the same music that captivated her as a girl, reconnecting with a deep, enduring sense of self.